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Frequently Asked Questions

It depends on the material, the marking method and the climate. Laser marking on dark granite, porcelain enamel plaques and stainless steel plaques are generally more durable than decals, but no general lifespan figure applies. Ask the monument maker for the expected lifespan of the exact material and process, ideally in writing.

Register a domain you own with multi-year renewals and auto-pay, and set up a permanent 301 redirect to the current memorial page. If you change hosts later, you update the redirect and the engraved code keeps working. Record who holds the domain account and tell a second family member.

No. Rules vary by cemetery, municipality and religious body, and some restrict the symbols, lettering or hardware allowed on a monument. Check the cemetery's regulations before you commission the engraving.

There is no single required size. Make it large enough to scan from where a visitor will actually stand without stepping onto a plot, keep a blank border at least four modules wide, and test a proof at the real size. Distance, contrast and the density of the code all affect scanning.

ICANN says an expired domain that is not renewed or restored in time may be released for anyone to register. A stranger could then put content behind the address on your stone. Use auto-renewal, a shared contact email and a written note of the account details for a second relative.

Not always. Cemetery rules differ, and some restrict or have discussed restricting QR codes. A 2014 news report said Arlington National Cemetery had not lifted a policy banning them, and the current position is unconfirmed here. Ask the cemetery for its rules in writing before commissioning anything.

Keep off details that help impersonation, such as a full birth date with a maiden name or a home address, and ask living relatives before posting their photos, especially children. If you add a guestbook, decide who moderates it. Treat the page as public, since search engines may index it.

A commercial memorial site is easier to start, but the engraved address then depends on that company's plans, prices and survival. A family-owned domain that redirects to the current page costs a yearly renewal and some care, and lets you move hosts without touching the stone.